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A quiet space for the life you're building together.

WithYou is a planner for couples. Tasks, shopping lists, bills, shared goals, soft nudges, and a weekly ritual. At the pace that suits you both.

Android coming soon — join the waitlist

Eat better, together
4 of 9 done · 6-day streak
Jordan nudged you
"No rush. Thinking of you."
Goals
Colorado road trip
7 of 11 tasks · by Jun 14
Eat better
4 of 9 tasks · by May 31
Tuesday · May 12
Good evening,
Jordan & Casey.
4 things together today.
50%
Today's pulse
2 of 4 done
6 days
Today's focus
Renew passports
Cook dinner
Kitchen · 7:30 PM
B
Book rental car
Colorado road trip
V
Eat better
Milestones
✓ Plan
✓ Stock
Cook 4
Reflect
"Tonight's curry was the best one yet. We made it together."
Jordan · yesterday
Why we built this

Most planners are made for one person, racing themselves. We made one for two, moving together, at their own pace.

No streaks-as-pressure. No leaderboards. Just shared tasks, shopping lists, bills, goals, gentle nudges, and a weekly check-in that actually feels good to do.

Everything inside WithYou
01 Tasks

Some tasks are yours. Some need both of you.

Assign tasks to yourself, your partner, or own them together. A joint task stays open until both of you check in. No one's left guessing. Add a "why this matters" so context travels with the task, not just the checkbox.

Today's focus
Book the dentist
Alex · done
Pick up dry cleaning
Your task · today
A
Call insurance together
Joint, both need to check in
A
C
Plan the weekend trip
Casey · road trip goal
C
Why this matters
"A shared to-do means we stop asking each other twice."
02 Shared Goals

Big things, in small, kind steps.

Plant a goal: eating well, a road trip, a calmer home. Add tasks as life suggests them. Watch milestones light up, gently. No pressure, no deadlines hanging over you.

Your goals
42%
Eat better
4 of 9 · A+C
65%
Colorado trip
7 of 11 · C leads
28%
Date nights
3 of 11 · A leads
12%
Calmer home
2 of 16 · A+C
03 Gentle Nudges

The opposite
of "reminding".

When your partner's handling something, you can send a soft check-in without nagging. Pick a tone from five warm options, or write your own line. It arrives gently, and they choose what to do with it. Capped at one per task per day, by design.

Send Casey a nudge
Re: "Plan the weekend trip"
One nudge per task, per day.
Nudge sent softly.
04 Weekly Check-in

Ten minutes. Three questions. Every week.

Gratitude, capacity, and a support ask. Not a performance review. Just a small, caring conversation made easier. WithYou guides you through it, and you choose what to share with each other.

Weekly Check-in
Step 1 · Gratitude
"Casey sorted the whole move without me lifting a finger."
2
Step 2 · Capacity check
How full is your plate right now?
1
2
3
4
5
I'm managing, but at capacity.
3
Step 3 · Support ask
Is there anything you need help with?
05 Journal

A quiet record of your two-person life.

Every task completed, milestone reached, and appreciation sent threads into a calm timeline. Add a reflection when you feel like it. Read it back in a year and see how far you came, together.

This week
Today · 7:48 PM
Milestone reached: Plan the menu
Today · 5:02 PM
Alex finished Dry cleaning
"Small thing, big relief. Thanks for always catching these."Casey
Yesterday
Added Book cabin in Asheville
Last week
Goal planted: Eat better, together
06 Shopping Lists

Divide and conquer the grocery run.

Split up in the store and check things off as they land in the basket. Your partner sees it disappear from their list in real time. No more double-buying oat milk. Multiple shared lists, synced instantly between both phones.

Shopping Lists
Both of you are in this list
Bread Casey got it
Eggs Alex got it
Milk x2
Oat milk Alex added
Olive oil
Add an item…
07 Bill Reminders

Know who's paying what before it's due.

Add your recurring bills, assign each one to whoever handles it, and both of you always see the full picture. WithYou quietly reminds whoever is responsible a few days before each due date.

Bill Reminders
Due this month
$2,215
Rent
Jun 1 · Casey
$1,400
C
Electric
Jun 8 · Alex
$120
A
Internet
Jun 15 · Casey
$65
C
Car insurance
Jun 28 · Alex
$180
A
Gentle reminder sent to whoever's responsible a few days before.
08 Shared Calendar

One calendar both of you actually look at.

Add events for just yourself, your partner, or both. See your week at a glance, shared and personal side by side. No more "I didn't know you had that" moments.

May 2026
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T
W
T
F
S
27
28
29
30
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Upcoming
Anniversary dinner
May 14 · 7:30 PM · Both
A
C
Casey: dentist appt.
May 16 · 10:00 AM · Casey only
C
Weekend road trip
May 23–25 · Both
A
C

What WithYou is and isn't.

WithYou For two

  • Shared tasks: solo, partner-led, or joint
  • Real-time shopping lists, both editing
  • Bill reminders with owner assigned
  • Goals with milestones & journal
  • Shared calendar: personal and joint events
  • Gentle nudges, capped and warm
  • Weekly check-in ritual, guided
  • No scoreboards, no streak guilt
  • Private between only the two of you

Most todo apps

  • Built for individual productivity
  • No shared shopping or bill features
  • No bill ownership or reminders
  • Tasks and deadlines, no bigger picture
  • No shared or couple-aware calendar
  • Notifications that nag
  • No relationship check-in support
  • Numbers, points, and leaderboards
  • Shared with the whole team, not a partner
Pricing

Free to start. WithYou Pro when you're ready.

WithYou is free for everything you need day-to-day. WithYou Pro unlocks the deeper features, and if one of you subscribes, both of you get it. Because that's the only way a couples app makes sense.

WithYou Free
Everything to get started
  • Shared tasks (unlimited)
  • Shared calendar
  • Shopping lists
  • Bill reminders
  • 1 shared goal
  • 2-day journal history
  • Appreciations
WithYou Pro
For couples going deeper
"If one of you subscribes, both of you get it."
  • Everything in Free
  • Unlimited shared goals
  • Full journal history
  • Weekly check-ins and your Sunday note
  • Weekly AI effort summary

No pressure to upgrade. WithYou Free is genuinely useful. WithYou Pro is for when you want the full picture.

Now available on iOS

Two of you. One quiet space.

A quiet space for the life you're building together.

Download on the App Store

Android waitlist

Android is coming. Leave your details and we'll reach out the day it's ready.

A few honest questions.

Do we both need the app?

Yes, that's the whole point. WithYou is built for two devices, two people, one shared space. Setup takes about 90 seconds for each of you, and you're linked from the moment you both finish.

Is it private?

Everything inside WithYou is just for the two of you. Notes, journal entries, reflections. They never leave your shared space. We don't sell data. We don't have an "engagement team."

What if my partner doesn't want to use it?

Then this isn't the right tool, and that's okay. WithYou doesn't work as a one-sided app, by design. We'd rather you find something that fits than push something that doesn't.

Is it for any kind of couple?

WithYou is for any two people who share a life: dating, married, queer, straight, long-distance, cohabiting, or somewhere in between. The language is "two of you," not "husband and wife."

Can I have tasks just for myself?

Yes. Private tasks are only visible to you. Your partner won't see them. You get the organizational benefit without everything being shared.

What about families with kids?

Right now, WithYou is just for two. A small-family version is on our roadmap for late 2026. Join the Android waitlist below if you'd like to hear when it's ready.